The Stages of Change
7/27/09 •
It is common for the family or friends of an addict to be ready for change before the addict is ready. This can lead to problems, encourage stress and possibly lead to conflict as it is very easy for loved ones to try and force the change both directly and indirectly. There are [...]
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